I have a little secret to tell: I struggle to have “fun” in the traditional sense. I have a “fun” personality, am socially outgoing and brave when it comes to engaging others. I love planning experiences (day trips and special events for others, etc.) However, when I attempt to connect over sports, games or spontaneous activities I haven’t done before, I freeze! This surprises a lot of people. It surprises me. For a six on the enneagram, fun can feel unsafe and unpredictable. We all land somewhere on the spectrum and can learn how to engage fun and play by expanding our social network.
“We all land somewhere on the spectrum and can learn how to engage fun and play by expanding our social network.”
I learned a lot about the importance of play this summer by observing how my nieces make believe. And, how my clients chose to take a break from coaching this July to embrace every opportunity. It was “game on” for most locals who hosts friends and family, took vacations and decided to play hooky from work.
The biggest “Ah-HA!” moment came in August when my client said, “I now know what I want to do in my retirement. Having free time in July and experimenting with my schedule gave me time to let life happen. I discovered how I want to spend my time.”
In other words, not having a plan or routine freed their mind up to dream, be in the moment and savor the simply joys of every day life. It gave her space to create!
Embracing fun and play can be a key factor in achieving success, both in your personal and professional life. In this blog, I will explore how different Enneagram types experience play. We'll also dive into the breakthroughs that can happen in life as a result of embracing fun and play.
Summer 2023
If you haven’t already, please take 10 minutes to take this Enneagram test. It is my favorite personality test because it highlights the complexity in our personality and teaches us how to be the most healthy version of ourselves. It consists of nine distinct personality types, each with its own set of characteristics, motivations, and fears. How each type experiences play/fun can vary significantly, shedding light on their unique perspectives on life.
The Power of Fun and Play in Personal and Professional Success: An Enneagram Perspective
Enneagram Type One: The Perfectionist
Ones tend to find fun in structured activities and hobbies that allow them to express their sense of responsibility and organization.
Examples: Organizing charity events, participating in competitive sports with strict rules.
Enneagram Type Two: The Helper
Twos often find joy in helping and connecting with others, deriving fun from nurturing relationships and being of service.
Examples: Hosting gatherings, volunteering for a cause they're passionate about.
Enneagram Type Three: The Achiever
Threes seek fun through goal-oriented activities that showcase their competence and success.
Examples: Winning a work-related competition, striving for a promotion.
Enneagram Type Four: The Individualist
Fours find fun in creative and emotionally expressive pursuits that allow them to explore their unique identity.
Examples: Attending art exhibitions, writing poetry, or engaging in deep, meaningful conversations.
Enneagram Type Five: The Investigator
Fives may experience fun in intellectual challenges and solo adventures that satisfy their thirst for knowledge.
Examples: Solving puzzles, embarking on solitary hikes, or delving into a complex subject.
Enneagram Type Six: The Loyalist
Sixes often find fun in bonding with trustworthy friends and engaging in activities that offer a sense of security.
Examples: Game nights with close friends, taking part in group activities they trust.
Enneagram Type Seven: The Enthusiast
Sevens are natural fun-seekers, and they excel at creating fun wherever they go. They find joy in variety, spontaneity, and new experiences.
Examples: Traveling to exotic destinations, planning surprise parties, or trying out new hobbies on a whim.
Enneagram Type Eight: The Challenger
Eights experience fun through taking charge and being in control of situations. They often enjoy competitive activities.
Examples: Playing competitive sports, leading team-building exercises.
Enneagram Type Nine: The Peacemaker
Nines find fun in relaxing and harmonious activities that bring them peace and tranquility.
Examples: Yoga retreats, nature walks, and peaceful gatherings.
One of my happiest moments … The Brandi Carlile concert in Interlochen. My 7th concert and 3rd with these ladies :)
The Breakthroughs of Fun & Play
Embracing fun and play can lead to profound breakthroughs in both personal and professional spheres:
Enhanced Creativity:
Engaging in fun activities outside of your daily routine can stimulate your creativity. New experiences can spark innovative ideas and solutions.
Improved Problem-Solving:
Playful approaches to problem-solving can lead to more effective outcomes. Play encourages us to think outside the box and consider unconventional solutions.
Strengthened Relationships:
Fun and play can deepen personal connections. Whether it's playing games with friends or sharing enjoyable experiences with colleagues, these moments strengthen bonds.
Reduced Stress:
Fun acts as a stress-reliever, allowing us to recharge and return to tasks with a fresh perspective. This can lead to increased productivity and success in our professional lives.
Enhanced Well-Being:
Regular doses of fun promote overall well-being. A balanced life that includes fun and play contributes to a healthier, more fulfilled existence.
Your assignment … GO PLAY!
Incorporating fun and play into our lives is not just a frivolous pursuit; it's a powerful tool for personal and professional success. Understanding how different Enneagram types experience fun can help us appreciate the diverse ways people find joy. If you’re unsure about how to play and have fun, go find an Enneagram Type Seven. Their boundless enthusiasm and love for spontaneity, remind us of the importance of embracing fun in our journey towards success. So, go ahead, let your inner enthusiast shine, and watch as breakthroughs unfold in your life, one joyful moment at a time.